Licensed Marriage and Family Therapy

License #: MFT-1001

Certified Substance Abuse Counselor

Gottman Level 3 Training

Emotion Focused Therapy (Completed Externship)

Do these thoughts feel familiar?

• “I feel like we’re growing apart. We argue about the smallest things.”

• “We’re not friends anymore. We’re just roommates with occasional benefits. I feel like I’ve fallen out of love.”

• “I got hurt so deeply. I don’t know if I can trust or forgive after what happened.”

• “I feel like I’m always walking on eggshells at home.”

If any of these resonate with you, you’re not alone. Many couples struggle with unresolved conflict, communication breakdowns, and emotional disconnection. Over time, this can lead to resentment, distance, and patterns that feel impossible to change.

A Research-Based, Faith-Informed Approach to Healing Your Marriage

I use The Gottman Method and Emotion Focused Therapy—both are highly researched and effective approaches—to help couples rebuild trust, deepen understanding, and restore emotional closeness. Through this process, we explore the patterns and habits that keep you stuck and learn new, practical ways to communicate and turn toward each other.

Couples who commit to this work often rediscover:

• Renewed friendship and intimacy

• More effective, loving communication skills

• A deeper understanding of each other’s inner world

• Hope and connection they thought was lost

If you desire a healthier, more intentional marriage grounded in both research and biblical principles, this work can be transformational.

As a Christian pastor of more than 20 years and now a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, I’ve walked alongside many couples facing conflict, broken trust, emotional distance, and grief. I know how painful these moments can be—and I also know the growth, healing, and renewal that are absolutely possible.

My responsibility is to be a safe, supportive, and skilled guide as you and your partner do this important work together.

Ready to Begin?

If you’re longing for clarity, connection, or a fresh start, I’m here to help.

Contact me today for a free consultation, and let’s begin your journey toward a stronger, healthier, more loving relationship.

Frank de Gracia, LMFT